I HATE

I hate when I ask for something in an urgent manner and people don't respond with the same sense of urgency. I guess if it was their stuff they'd want someone to respond urgently because it's important to them...well it is equally important to me if it is important to them. Some people think I am uptight but I think it's operating in excellence, don't over commit and if you do and can't fulfill obligations, give a courtesy call instead of dodging the person's calls. That is completely inexcusable for an adult! I mean really, it's not hard to admit you have bitten off more than you can chew, or that you really don't want to be apart. To me your actions speak much LOUDER than your words because at the end of the day, talk is cheap...either put up or shut up! Plain and simple. Reminds me of the book my friend is writing, not sure if she has the title yet, we came up with some that are quite abrasive, but the jest of the book is, PUT UP OR SHUT UP!

Seriously, talking to me is nominal.

I hate that I give out more than I receive. That it seems so much more complicated for other people to reciprocate the good deeds they receive. Where did we forget about the principle of sowing and reaping? Don't they know that if they are crappy to me, then somewhere somehow, someone will be crappy to them too?

I hate waiting, but over the years have developed more patience...unless it's an urgent matter that is. Those being farther and fewer in between I sit back and allow people to hang themselves by talking too much, not following through or just being shifty friends.

Did I mention that I hate people who talk too much?

I hate making mistakes, but as much as I hate making them, I enjoy the learning process that comes out of the ordeal. In my older age, I try to learn as much as possible and observe more than I speak on. It really makes a difference to the person I am and who I am developing to be.

I hate people who think they know you based on past situations or circumstances. I hate when they can't progress forward in the relationship from a healthy place instead of dragging you back to the "remember when" especially if those weren't your highlight years! That they continue to try to shadow your much promising future with the horror of your past and shady decisions THEN!

I hate having to do things all by myself because other people are too selfish to help. Goes back to when you are in need you want someone to help, but can't extend the favor initially...not that I go about doing things to cash in, but what goes around comes around.

I hate when people try to over complicate things. Life is really not that difficult.